7 Foot Care Tips From a Dominatrix With Foot-Fetishist Clients

Goddess Aviva is a professional and lifestyle dominatrix with beautiful feet. While they are indeed naturally gorgeous, she has a tried-and-true foot care routine to keep them not only stunning for her submissives but healthy for herself. Many of her male submissive clients come to her to indulge a foot fetish, a sexual fetish Goddess Aviva says is quite normal. (Indeed, a foot fetish is among the most common fetishes, not to mention a healthy source of joy in many people's sex lives.)

A foot fetish is different for each individual who has one, but often involves a desire to worship feet through giving them massages or kissing them. Those with foot fetishes may also receive sexual pleasure from activities with aspects of humiliation, for example having someone rub their feet on them: This act can be part on a power exchange in which submissives cede control to their domme. We begged Goddess Aviva to share with us her secret foot beauty routine, and she kindly obliged. In the goddess's own words, here's how she gets her heavenly feet. More visit: How to do bondage

1. Exfoliate your feet in the shower using a pumice stone.

"I wash them often. When I shower I use a pumice stone, a brown natural one, to make my feet really soft and prevent calluses. I take really good care of my feet. It’s important; we spend so much time on our feet during the day. They carry us through life and deserve a lot of love."

2. Try coconut oil instead of body lotion.

"I use coconut oil as a moisturizer. After I’ve used my pumice stone, I get out of the shower and slather my whole body in coconut oil — especially the feet. If you want to do extra moisturizing, after you’ve pumiced and exfoliated, slather on coconut oil and then put socks on and sleep with them on."

3. Opt for gel polish for durable and long-lasting pedicures.

"I feel naked if I don’t have a pedicure. I make sure I have a gel mani-pedi at all times. I get gels done because they last a long time and I’m using my feet in sessions a lot, so I have to make sure the polish is not going to chip. Submissives will sometimes request to paint my toes. They usually don’t know how to paint well, but that can also be a fun humiliating task. If they’re not doing it well, you can punish them for it. But I usually leave pedicures to the professionals."

4. Adjust your nail polish depending on the season.

"I get requests from submissives for red or dark colors, such as a dark red or black. Sometimes it’s pink. Those are the most common, but the colors I wear change depending on the season. In the summer I tend to go for a pale pink. In the fall and winter, I’m usually doing blood red or a wine red, or something deeper that’s almost black."

5. Rock a signature nail color — but above all, wear what you want (you’re the goddess).

"The colors the submissives tend to enjoy are actually a few of my favorites. I do love pinks, black, and reds. There’s this Sally Hansen gel nail color called 'Pat On The Black.' It’s a really deep red that’s almost black."

6. Don’t forget to stretch if you wear heels.

"Anyone wearing heels on a regular basis needs to make sure they’re stretching their feet and pampering them a bit extra. For my personal taste in shoes, I do love a classic stiletto with a pointy heel. I have these patent leather stilettos that I’m loving lately. Open toe is always nice, so you can show off your pedicure. Submissives tend to find the higher the heel, the sexier. I think it’s because they enjoy the more dangerous-looking shoes. If you also love heels, make sure you’re balancing it with wearing very comfortable footwear as well."

7. Treat yourself to foot massages (or find a submissive eager to service you).

"For a lot of submissives, it’s a great joy and honor to help pamper their goddess or mistress. I try to get a foot massage every time I have a session. I think that I have a fetish for foot massages. The feet are a very powerful part of the body. If you are on your feet all day they deserve that extra love.

"In a session, it can be incorporated in a way that is both an honor and humiliating. From one end, this is the part of your body that is touching the ground. There can be an idea that your feet are dirty and that someone shouldn't be touching them. That aspect that can be humiliating for a submissive, especially if they are actually dirty from walking around.

"There’s also this aspect of the power dynamic of having a submissive worshipping your feet. There’s even the idea of Mary Magdalene washing the feet of Jesus. The act of caring for someone’s feet is very powerful. Also, it’s just a great way for someone to show gratitude and appreciation to their goddess and their mistress. If a submissive is requesting you wear heels, they had better be massaging your feet."